Number of People in the Family
Author: Dalip Singh Wasan
Number of people in the family
It is our first requirement that we should keep the number of people in the family which could be controlled by us, could be maintained by us and amongst whom we can keep cooperation, love and affection. Sons when married and are in earning capacity, they should be asked to establish their own family separately because if they live with you, their wives would not be having good relations with you or with your life partner and this cold or direct war shall be creating so many problems for you and hence tension. Similarly if you are producing children and are not having in your mind your financial resources, you would be suffering financially and you would not be able to run the family in a right manner. There are chances that your children may not be getting proper education, proper training, proper and proper adjustment in life and you would be facing difficulty in finding out suitable matches for them. they shall remain unemployed and thus shall be burden on you and hence tension. They shall be turning drug addicts, criminals, opium eaters, gamblers, rioters, terrorist or any one of them and they shall be bringing all types of complaints and you would be facing hardship and you shall have to cut a sorry finger time and again. Therefore, it is the duty of each one of us to keep our family within limits. We note that our life partner would not like even to maintain our parents and she would like that they should stay separately. she shall be ready to spare money, but she would not be liking to keep them in the family. She does not like serving such people.
We all want to enjoy life and none of us wants to have burden on his or her brain because this tension does not allow us to have a happy life. Therefore, we should have an examination of ourselves and then we should find out what items are creating burden on our brain and we should try to come out of those problems. It is our own problem and none shall be able to help us. We should help ourselves and we should see that we are getting a tension free life. It is possible and we should work on the lines drawn by ourselves. Medicines, consultations, drugs, opium, wine, women and all entertainments shall not help us because all these are temporary measures. We shall try to develop a habit of facing all the problems and solving those problems. Till those problems are alive, they shall be creating troubles for us and hence tension. therefore, we should be alive towards our problems and since those are our problems, we are in a position to solve these problems.
Cat shall not go away simply because we have shut our eyes. We shall have to open our eyes and then we shall have to face the problems. We are complete and wise person and we are made to solve our own problems. For a tension free life, our list of problems be on the lower side.
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